According to dating surveys, more people want EMOTIONAL MATURITY in relationships than ever.

People are starting to care less about looks and emotional maturity tops the list of what singles are looking for.

Here are 10 signs to know if someone is emotionally mature or not:

1. Being flexible

When things don't go according to the plan, an emotionally mature person is able to think things out and come up with a viable Plan B or even C, and still move forward not letting the bump in the road ruin the entire plan.

2. Taking responsibility

An emotionally mature person is able to own up to their own mistakes and not look to blame others. This takes a level of self-honesty and acceptance.

3. Thinking before responding

Mature people think before speaking and they're great listeners.
They never let their temper take over during the argument.

They would win the relationship rather than win the argument.

4. Being open-minded

Mature people are more open-minded people, they accept different people and things that are different from what they like. They are open to trying new things that they did not understand before.

5. Knowing that they don't know everything

An emotionally mature person knows what they don’t know.

They don’t argue “just to be right” or to show dominance.
They keep an open mind and have open ears and eyes to learn something.

6. Knowing when to have conversations and when to avoid them

Learning when you’re calm and open enough to actually have a conversation, shows you want to solve the problem instead of just reacting to a situation.

Knowing when to pause a discussion shows that you care.

7. Learning from every situation

An emotionally mature person constantly looks up for what can be learned from any situation or opportunity, asking “How can I learn and grow from this?”

8. They are great listeners

Mature people no longer feel that their ego has to shine in every conversation and they can be able to listen to someone without cutting them before they are done speaking.

9. Choosing peace

Whatever life throws at them, they would think before reacting.

They would choose peace over proving a point or being the winner. Maturity is when a person chooses his battles.

10. A good sense of humor

Emotionally mature people realize that life can’t be taken seriously.
They realize the importance of having fun and laughter in life as a great coping mechanism and pressure release from stress.

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Everyone is always busy, hectic, and overwhelmed in this world.

Many try to decompress and make their life stress-free, but they often fail. Why? 

Because they are looking for complicated answers to simple questions!


You can’t solve a problem by creating more problems, that’s what overcomplicating does.

Even the smallest changes in your life can add up and become part of a Zen and a calm daily routine. 

Here are 10 tips:


1. Set limits 



Stop doing things that don’t matter to you. Set a limit for social media and:

• Examine your schedule and available time. 
• Survey and prioritize. 
• Avoid last-minute commitments.
• Say "no" and "yes" and mean it.


2. Do something that brings your mind back online



Work out, go for a walk, do meditation, swim, take a bath…
Find out what works for you and do it.



3. Quit blaming



All that finger-pointing really just points us in the wrong direction.

We can empower ourselves to move forward and change the way we think and live.

You have to take responsibility for your actions, thoughts, and outcomes and stop blaming anyone.


4. Never exaggerate your problems 



Don’t make mountains out of molehills. This creates a lot of unnecessary stress.

Zoom out and realize that things may not be that bad and you can handle them.


5. Have no fear



The only things you will regret are the chances and opportunities that you didn’t take because of fear.

“All amazing things in your life happen on the other side of your fear.”

Life’s too short for sitting and waiting for all storms to pass.


6. Slow down



During a stressful and hectic time, probably the last thing on your mind is slowing down. But it really helps.

Modern life is so busy, and sometimes we just need to slow down and chill out.

Look at your life and find small ways you can do that.


7. Laugh more
 
It’s no secret that laughing feels good and it can cause stress relief.

• Laugh in your everyday situations
• Share a laugh with friends or family
• Watch stand-up comedy live
• Look up jokes online or in books
• Challenge yourself to laugh more


8. Ask



Reading minds is impossible, but we still often try it and create anxiety, uncertainty, and misguided conclusions for ourselves.

Instead of guessing what’s going on, just simply ask!

It’s hard at first but it will help you and others a lot.


9. Breathe
 
Pausing whatever you are doing in a stressful moment, and taking a few deep breaths can ease the pressure off of you.



1️⃣Take a comfortable position.
2️⃣Close your eyes.
3️⃣Slowly take deep breaths in and out. 
4️⃣Do this for 5 to 10 minutes at a time.


10. Disconnect



Limit your internet activity.
 

How many hours a day do you spend on Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, and more? How does that make you feel?


So why not limit or even disconnect from these?


By implementing even a few of these habits, you should feel more grounded and less stressed.


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